Showing posts with label God. Show all posts
Showing posts with label God. Show all posts
Monday, November 7, 2011
Heartfelt
Tuesday, February 8, 2011
Monday, January 31, 2011
Thursday, April 29, 2010
Friday, March 19, 2010
For every will there is a example of a way ..

For those that read my Different types of honey posts, know that I strongly feel the need to discuss the matters/issues about the lack of self-love of young women!
But I believe that for every issue, there is solution and sometimes you need an example .. see how somebody else is embrassing themselfs. Somebody that looks a lil' like you! There is always somebody to set the example of self-love and natural beauty! And eventhough I can only show you the outward beauty of an certain example, it has to start from the inside, somehow! So next to the DTH post, i'll give you the examples of true beautiful women (in my eyes)..
True Honey .. Examples of beauty
And because I do NOT want you or me to focus on outward beauty alone, I'll post about true inspirational and beautiful women, also !
I'll keep you posted!
*Mwah* Frizz
Floral Spring .. Whoop, Whoop!!

I told y'all my dream of the perfect dress would come true!
I found 1 and now it's all over the place!
Floral dresses everywhere! YaaaaaaaaY!!
Even H&M made a collection with almost 75% being FLORAL!!
PrettIEEEEEES!!

With the most precious name (The Garden Collection) and environment friendly!

Spring is gonna be so sweet! Plus, I already got the combat boots!!
I'm on a hunt, y'all ..
My closet, man .. POW, TADOW, WATCH OUT NOW!!

*Mwah*, Frizz
Thursday, March 11, 2010
Un nuevo yo .. before and after
My dear lovelies,
Do y'all remember what I wrote in a old post/Date: 1/21/2010?
Rememer when I made a promise about showing you a certain change .. No?
Let me refresh your mind:
Well here it is!
For those who don't know .. I just turned 25 on 2/27/2010!
Hmm, I've heared it all ..
"You're a quarter now!; Ooh, you'll be 30 in JUST 5 years; Quarter of a century is through" blablabla!
Stop it!
I'll just say .. I've been blessed waking up these 25 years, living a life full of lessons and love and now I'm headed to a 100 more! Moving forward, Hallelujah!
This year has brought me so much! Not only did I let go of emotional baggage, but some physical baggage as well!
And to keep the promise I made in januari, my dear sisters
Mellie Mell and Jessy (theheartofjess.blogspot.com) made some birthday pictures of me!
So here it is, the Before and After Frizz:


And a b-day picture:

Yes, I am very proud of what I've accomplished! It's a steppin'stone to a milestone!
And, oh please, do tell me what you think of the transformation!
Now if you'll excuse me, I'm gonna start nibblin' on my fruitsnack!
Till nxt writing, bébés!
Mwah, Frizz
Do y'all remember what I wrote in a old post/Date: 1/21/2010?
Rememer when I made a promise about showing you a certain change .. No?
Let me refresh your mind:
Uhm .. too bad I don't have a picture of my new body yet, but I won't leave ya hanging! It's coming soon! A special before and after-post!
Well here it is!
For those who don't know .. I just turned 25 on 2/27/2010!
Hmm, I've heared it all ..
"You're a quarter now!; Ooh, you'll be 30 in JUST 5 years; Quarter of a century is through" blablabla!
Stop it!
I'll just say .. I've been blessed waking up these 25 years, living a life full of lessons and love and now I'm headed to a 100 more! Moving forward, Hallelujah!
This year has brought me so much! Not only did I let go of emotional baggage, but some physical baggage as well!
And to keep the promise I made in januari, my dear sisters
Mellie Mell and Jessy (theheartofjess.blogspot.com) made some birthday pictures of me!
So here it is, the Before and After Frizz:

And a b-day picture:

Yes, I am very proud of what I've accomplished! It's a steppin'stone to a milestone!
Bigger this are coming y'all!
And, oh please, do tell me what you think of the transformation!
Now if you'll excuse me, I'm gonna start nibblin' on my fruitsnack!
Till nxt writing, bébés!
Mwah, Frizz
Wednesday, March 10, 2010
Different types of honey pt 2: How far women go to "look sexy" (in the wordly eye)
Back after a week ..
And it was a peaceful one .. just me and God! Amazing!
But in my 7 day hiatus, I still couldn't keep my mind of certain
"beautychanges" that are so "it" these days..
Like the other day I was waiting for my tram to come
and take me home ..
An oh- so relaxin' moment to just lettin' my mind reflect on the day and come to rest! You just don't want ANYBODY to distract you from that moment of peace ..
Well, so much for wishful thinking, 'cause something on my right side was totally distracting me ..
A gigantic booty!
And not the meaty-kind .. This one was PUMPED!
No seriously, It looked like a pumped up football!
If you'd try to squeeze it, it would slide outta yo' fingers!
I kept on looking at the woman with disbelieve and amasement by the outcome. I wondered what the reason was she'd done it in the first place?! Didn't it feel like carrying and sittin' on a skippy ball?
But ofcourse, she's not the only one walking with that paticular new piece. This happends everyday ..
Girls be showin' and giratin' something that isn't even "what they momma gave them". They just found Dr Illusion to give them somethin' "brand new" to flant.
But still: Why the sudden change? Well, I don't even have to tell ya .. But for those that need a lil' help ..
Example #1: In this world, superficiality is all around. The world evolves around looks and status! So when that's of high priority, the media will make it a even HIGHER priority in all of their products. Now, women love all kinds of media, especially fashion magazines! That's a fact ..
That's where we get our latest fashion, lifestyle and career facts from! But it's not just about those topic. Models are included, too! And unintentionally, we compare ourself with some of those models .. And if women see model A looking gorgeous in the hottest new bikini with a firm behind, we, women, walk to the mirror and suddenly look at ours ..
Be honest, you'll start thinkin' of 1) the gym or 2) .. Dr Illusion! Unfortunately, alot of women will visit Dr Illusion after that certain doubt!

As I was surfing on inet, I came across this site: http://www.cosmeticplasticsurgerystatistics.com
On this site the surgical stats are shown per year. The lastest stats of 2008 show that 10.2 million surgeries took place!
Meaning 10.2 million people in the USA, alone!!
The top surgical procedures being Breast implants (355,671 thousand) and Liposuction (309,692 thousand).
Oh and another shocker .. the beginning age starts at 16! So what this means is, that (young) women dominate the plastic surgical stats with more than 50%!
Honestly, do you really think that you'll look prettier with a bigger behind, two pumped up girlfriends or anything that can be constructed on your body?
Ok, wait .. In some cases, I can understand the necissity!
Example #2 : Some women are not blessed with two full girlfriends.. Just two buttons ..

And some are blessed with girlfriend that create the "baglady" effect .. Or some have a crooked nose, lil' to no teeth or any kind of "Extreme Make-over battle".. If that's the case, I'd could understand why you're seeking for help, but still .. But doing it in the name of "beautification", because of your rooted lack-of-self-esteem problem is a serious problem! And the women that do it are beautiful already! Then they do it ones and get hooked ..
A pity ..

Just because somebody or something told you, you don't have what it takes, doesn't mean it's true! you are YOU and there is no copy of you, Thank God! So that mean your EXTREMELY SPECIAL! Even twins are individuals, eventhough they look alike! You should be proud that there's one of you walking around this earth! I know I am! I'm unique with all I am and all that is in me!
Like I said in my last post: You are made in Gods image and He thinks you are perfect! No plastic surgeon can change what is inside of you! Who you are in your heart and soul is who you reflect on the outside! Be the best inside, so it can come out and you don't need to change anything!
I praise God for making me as His likeness, His image, and so are you!
Nxt post: The terrible side of how far women go to "look sexy" in the wordly eye
Mwah, Frizz
And it was a peaceful one .. just me and God! Amazing!
But in my 7 day hiatus, I still couldn't keep my mind of certain
"beautychanges" that are so "it" these days..
Like the other day I was waiting for my tram to come
and take me home ..
An oh- so relaxin' moment to just lettin' my mind reflect on the day and come to rest! You just don't want ANYBODY to distract you from that moment of peace ..
Well, so much for wishful thinking, 'cause something on my right side was totally distracting me ..
A gigantic booty!
And not the meaty-kind .. This one was PUMPED!
No seriously, It looked like a pumped up football!
If you'd try to squeeze it, it would slide outta yo' fingers!
I kept on looking at the woman with disbelieve and amasement by the outcome. I wondered what the reason was she'd done it in the first place?! Didn't it feel like carrying and sittin' on a skippy ball?
But ofcourse, she's not the only one walking with that paticular new piece. This happends everyday ..
Girls be showin' and giratin' something that isn't even "what they momma gave them". They just found Dr Illusion to give them somethin' "brand new" to flant.
But still: Why the sudden change? Well, I don't even have to tell ya .. But for those that need a lil' help ..
Example #1: In this world, superficiality is all around. The world evolves around looks and status! So when that's of high priority, the media will make it a even HIGHER priority in all of their products. Now, women love all kinds of media, especially fashion magazines! That's a fact ..
That's where we get our latest fashion, lifestyle and career facts from! But it's not just about those topic. Models are included, too! And unintentionally, we compare ourself with some of those models .. And if women see model A looking gorgeous in the hottest new bikini with a firm behind, we, women, walk to the mirror and suddenly look at ours ..
Be honest, you'll start thinkin' of 1) the gym or 2) .. Dr Illusion! Unfortunately, alot of women will visit Dr Illusion after that certain doubt!

As I was surfing on inet, I came across this site: http://www.cosmeticplasticsurgerystatistics.com
On this site the surgical stats are shown per year. The lastest stats of 2008 show that 10.2 million surgeries took place!
Meaning 10.2 million people in the USA, alone!!
The top surgical procedures being Breast implants (355,671 thousand) and Liposuction (309,692 thousand).
Oh and another shocker .. the beginning age starts at 16! So what this means is, that (young) women dominate the plastic surgical stats with more than 50%!
Honestly, do you really think that you'll look prettier with a bigger behind, two pumped up girlfriends or anything that can be constructed on your body?
Ok, wait .. In some cases, I can understand the necissity!
Example #2 : Some women are not blessed with two full girlfriends.. Just two buttons ..
And some are blessed with girlfriend that create the "baglady" effect .. Or some have a crooked nose, lil' to no teeth or any kind of "Extreme Make-over battle".. If that's the case, I'd could understand why you're seeking for help, but still .. But doing it in the name of "beautification", because of your rooted lack-of-self-esteem problem is a serious problem! And the women that do it are beautiful already! Then they do it ones and get hooked ..
A pity ..
Just because somebody or something told you, you don't have what it takes, doesn't mean it's true! you are YOU and there is no copy of you, Thank God! So that mean your EXTREMELY SPECIAL! Even twins are individuals, eventhough they look alike! You should be proud that there's one of you walking around this earth! I know I am! I'm unique with all I am and all that is in me!
Like I said in my last post: You are made in Gods image and He thinks you are perfect! No plastic surgeon can change what is inside of you! Who you are in your heart and soul is who you reflect on the outside! Be the best inside, so it can come out and you don't need to change anything!
I praise God for making me as His likeness, His image, and so are you!
Never, ever let standards of the world change your view of the beautiful you!- Frizz
Nxt post: The terrible side of how far women go to "look sexy" in the wordly eye
Mwah, Frizz
Thursday, February 18, 2010
Different types of honey pt 1 ..
Warning: Use of sexy/explicit imagery .. Material helps to make a point! Just something that weighted heavy on my heart!
Oeh .. I'm so upset!
So the other day, I was talking to my dear niece Chanty. 17, beautiful dark skinned girl, with a body to die for! Somehow, our convo's always go from God to guys, to a mixture of both. This time she was telling me about the kind of guys she diggs, but that those guys are always falling for the SAME TYPE/KIND OF GIRLS! You know, the kind of girls you see in videos ..
No clue? Pic the visual:
- Curled or sleek hair, (most of the times it's a weave)
- Yellow, red or brown bone (read: light bright, red undertone and caramel-brown: Black mixed with Hispanic, Euro, Asian etc.)
- Thick or very nicely built (full frontal, small waist, biiiig hips, thighs n booty)
- A pair of babygirl/bedroom eyes (big/small eyes with long lashes)
- And thick candy rose lips
Ok, lemme give you a visual then:

Now, I think this woman is very BEAUTIFUL! I truely do!
But, there a alot of girls/women, that feel they're being overlooked by men, just 'cause they do NOT look like her or have any of the "qualities" of the notorious list. Living in a society that's based on superficiality, with video's that show you how to look, walk, live and have the " be like me or be nothing" mentality, alot of beautiful girls/women are gettin' infected by it .. the wrong way.
Because this is an issue that is being overlooked, but so important, I'll spend some of my precious blogspace on this subject. To keep this post descent (lenght wise), I will post this matter in different parts ... I told you it was heavy on my heart!
Example #1 : I know that there are alot of beautiful darkskinned/mocha girls that think they're underrated (not beautiful), 'cause their fellow black sisters are f.e. not displayed as the singer's interest in his last video. Producers rather have a interest in a girl looking like the one shown in the last picture or at least with some of the features of the list. But these beautiful darkskinned/mocha girls do lead in another part of the video ..

The booty-poppin' part ..
Yes, it is a fact that alot of darkskinned/mocha ladies, no matter how beautiful, are casted to pop sum .. Girls/women of the same shades feel like they either have to pop or rebuild sum', in order to be liked by anyone!
I know what you're thinkin' .. "Ladies need to stop that nonsence and start loving themselves no matter how they look or what skincolour they have/Didn't their mama's teach them anything about selfrespect and selflove?" Believe me, I feel the same way, and there is NOTHING more important than loving yourself! But its still a big thing for them to say "I am beautiful"!
So what I'm about to share now, goes out to ALL WOMEN!! black, white, yellow, green .. All y'all!!
What you shouldn't do is compare yourself with a model from a video or any media in paticular!! It's ok to look at magazines for a cute top or new shade of gloss, but don't shop for the same eyes and thighs! You ARE Gods masterpiece! You ARE made in HIS likeness! You're beautiful and perfect just the way you are!!
I'll tell you, look around or surf @ community sites! Girls/women are really trying to look like those vixens! Same poses, same clothes (only cheaper), same hair .. everything!! They're even giving themself the vixens last name!! That made me so upset!! I wanted to shake the girl and tell her:
Ok, so what happend to you?? Where did you put yourself? In the fridge? Probably, 'cause you think it's cool .. Pretending to be someone else! -Frizz
They just have no idea how good it feels to be your individual/original self instead of being a copy of somebody else ..
Oeh .. I'm so upset!
So the other day, I was talking to my dear niece Chanty. 17, beautiful dark skinned girl, with a body to die for! Somehow, our convo's always go from God to guys, to a mixture of both. This time she was telling me about the kind of guys she diggs, but that those guys are always falling for the SAME TYPE/KIND OF GIRLS! You know, the kind of girls you see in videos ..
No clue? Pic the visual:
- Curled or sleek hair, (most of the times it's a weave)
- Yellow, red or brown bone (read: light bright, red undertone and caramel-brown: Black mixed with Hispanic, Euro, Asian etc.)
- Thick or very nicely built (full frontal, small waist, biiiig hips, thighs n booty)
- A pair of babygirl/bedroom eyes (big/small eyes with long lashes)
- And thick candy rose lips
Ok, lemme give you a visual then:

Now, I think this woman is very BEAUTIFUL! I truely do!
But, there a alot of girls/women, that feel they're being overlooked by men, just 'cause they do NOT look like her or have any of the "qualities" of the notorious list. Living in a society that's based on superficiality, with video's that show you how to look, walk, live and have the " be like me or be nothing" mentality, alot of beautiful girls/women are gettin' infected by it .. the wrong way.
Because this is an issue that is being overlooked, but so important, I'll spend some of my precious blogspace on this subject. To keep this post descent (lenght wise), I will post this matter in different parts ... I told you it was heavy on my heart!
Example #1 : I know that there are alot of beautiful darkskinned/mocha girls that think they're underrated (not beautiful), 'cause their fellow black sisters are f.e. not displayed as the singer's interest in his last video. Producers rather have a interest in a girl looking like the one shown in the last picture or at least with some of the features of the list. But these beautiful darkskinned/mocha girls do lead in another part of the video ..

The booty-poppin' part ..
Yes, it is a fact that alot of darkskinned/mocha ladies, no matter how beautiful, are casted to pop sum .. Girls/women of the same shades feel like they either have to pop or rebuild sum', in order to be liked by anyone!
I know what you're thinkin' .. "Ladies need to stop that nonsence and start loving themselves no matter how they look or what skincolour they have/Didn't their mama's teach them anything about selfrespect and selflove?" Believe me, I feel the same way, and there is NOTHING more important than loving yourself! But its still a big thing for them to say "I am beautiful"!
So what I'm about to share now, goes out to ALL WOMEN!! black, white, yellow, green .. All y'all!!
What you shouldn't do is compare yourself with a model from a video or any media in paticular!! It's ok to look at magazines for a cute top or new shade of gloss, but don't shop for the same eyes and thighs! You ARE Gods masterpiece! You ARE made in HIS likeness! You're beautiful and perfect just the way you are!!
I'll tell you, look around or surf @ community sites! Girls/women are really trying to look like those vixens! Same poses, same clothes (only cheaper), same hair .. everything!! They're even giving themself the vixens last name!! That made me so upset!! I wanted to shake the girl and tell her:
Ok, so what happend to you?? Where did you put yourself? In the fridge? Probably, 'cause you think it's cool .. Pretending to be someone else! -Frizz
They just have no idea how good it feels to be your individual/original self instead of being a copy of somebody else ..
Nxt time: " How far women can go to "look sexy" in the worldly eye"
But in the meantime ..
What do you think? Share your thoughts with me!
Let's debate!!
*Mwah* Frizz
But in the meantime ..
What do you think? Share your thoughts with me!
Let's debate!!
*Mwah* Frizz
Wednesday, February 10, 2010
Gnaw ..

Kneelin', almost laid down
Covered it all types of thingswonder when it stops
when the blows will come to an endI can't get up no more
'cause the punches get harderMan I'm almost KO'ed
they push and drive me further,Away
SomedayThese pains will go astray
But someday seems so untouchableanother blow, so there I go
I need to lean
I scream, yellI can't get up
Just did but fellCan't cry no more
Just let me dwell'Cause it's hard to get outta this shell
I never knew I'd fall so deep
in mindsets that don't make the changeThe power that I need is still here
and will never go awayWhy won't I grab it?
Why do I hesitate?Does it seem unreal
Or a waist of time to hydrate?I just don't know how
To take it by the handPlease, help me Lord, I'm exhausted
Please help me understand ..This thing called life/Your will for me.
Friday, January 15, 2010
The Emo Ride ..
.. Sometimes I feel like I'm in one ..
So, it's that day again ..
You know, when you just feel ackward and truely not on the amusing side of life ..
Yeah, I have those sometimes .. more than I want to ..
But, as a woman who's trying to do the right thing everyday,
it is sometime a bit tough to keep that Kodak smile on your face, when you feel .. almost .. deplorable (ooh dramatic).
I started this year with an unexpected enthousiasm (I was the one finding it unexpected) that things would take a turn in my life!
I believe God to turn my life around and expend my horizon to unthinkable heights and beautiful weights! I believe it .. I truely do!
But me, being so impatient x extremely anxious, wants it more than anything and may I add, Right Now!
Really, it's a sad sight to see .. even for myself! If I don't see a slight of the promised blessings today ..
I get dissappointed.
I'll be sad without even the slightest person knowing that I am! 'Cause me, I'll smile so the world can't see
my depressing inside thoughts x doubts! I know that changes are coming, but the daily tasks,
that are always there at the same time, all day everyday, are making it hard to believe that there is more than .. well, this.
Did you ever felt that way? That the routine in your life just wears you out?
There is MORE to life, I know that much! I see it all around me! Young people making it B.I.G in life.
Yep .. seeing dreams come true for people that are close to you makes you feel .. left behind in some way ..
Doubt. A bitter hope-killer.
And then you ask yourself .. Will that happen to me? Am I worthy to be just like them?
In those moments, you know what I tell myself? "Snap out of it!"
The most selfish thought that you can ever have is the poison, atrocious thought of self-pity!
First of all: It's selfish to think that you're this sad lil' nobody. The biggest problem in this world today
is people wanting to be something they're not. Or being exactly like the one they look up to.
Leading to the fact that they get dissappointed x not liking themself, because they are not as pretty or handsome as their rolemodel.
You know that those same people have their insecurities too, right?
But they were bold enough to be the best they can be: THEMSELFS!
They stayed loyal to that person and let God do the rest. And look at them now!
Learn from it!
And stop being pitiful and lazy! "Get up, get out n DO SOMETHING" then! (red. Outkast)
You need to move forward and be active! Work HARD towards your goal x stay true to YOU!
And even if you've worked hard and it doesn't go as fast as you wanted to .. work HARDER ..
Pump up the volume! Let the boombox scream out the bass!
Yes, you will be boo-ed and laughed at .. but do YOU! And stay humble x do the right thing ..
'Cause at the end, that's what pays off!
Second: You doubt that God will bless you! Actually: You don't believe Him at His word;.
But don't you know that He'll give you what you've asked for in prayer?! (see end of post)
And thirth (I'm pumped right nah!): You don't know where that person has been/had to go through
before he/she came to this point of amazing blessings. God gave that time for that person to shine! And so will you! And so will I!
"Have faith that you wil receive whatever you ask for in prayer." - Matt 21-22
So .. now I can brush that sad, puppyface, I-just-don't-understand attitude off me.
It's almost weekend! Let's have some fun, shall we?
And though I'm clearly giving you the impression of being a mental-coach;
Giving you the BOOST on believing in yourself, you do realize that this post is actually for me too, right?
"Don't fret, today wasn't the time of your breakthrough ..
don't stop moving, today is one day/step/moment closer" - Frizz
Till nxt writings
*Mwah* Frizz
So, it's that day again ..
You know, when you just feel ackward and truely not on the amusing side of life ..
Yeah, I have those sometimes .. more than I want to ..
But, as a woman who's trying to do the right thing everyday,
it is sometime a bit tough to keep that Kodak smile on your face, when you feel .. almost .. deplorable (ooh dramatic).
I started this year with an unexpected enthousiasm (I was the one finding it unexpected) that things would take a turn in my life!
I believe God to turn my life around and expend my horizon to unthinkable heights and beautiful weights! I believe it .. I truely do!
But me, being so impatient x extremely anxious, wants it more than anything and may I add, Right Now!
Really, it's a sad sight to see .. even for myself! If I don't see a slight of the promised blessings today ..
I get dissappointed.
I'll be sad without even the slightest person knowing that I am! 'Cause me, I'll smile so the world can't see
my depressing inside thoughts x doubts! I know that changes are coming, but the daily tasks,
that are always there at the same time, all day everyday, are making it hard to believe that there is more than .. well, this.
Did you ever felt that way? That the routine in your life just wears you out?
There is MORE to life, I know that much! I see it all around me! Young people making it B.I.G in life.
Yep .. seeing dreams come true for people that are close to you makes you feel .. left behind in some way ..
Doubt. A bitter hope-killer.
And then you ask yourself .. Will that happen to me? Am I worthy to be just like them?
In those moments, you know what I tell myself? "Snap out of it!"
The most selfish thought that you can ever have is the poison, atrocious thought of self-pity!
First of all: It's selfish to think that you're this sad lil' nobody. The biggest problem in this world today
is people wanting to be something they're not. Or being exactly like the one they look up to.
Leading to the fact that they get dissappointed x not liking themself, because they are not as pretty or handsome as their rolemodel.
You know that those same people have their insecurities too, right?
But they were bold enough to be the best they can be: THEMSELFS!
They stayed loyal to that person and let God do the rest. And look at them now!
Learn from it!
And stop being pitiful and lazy! "Get up, get out n DO SOMETHING" then! (red. Outkast)
You need to move forward and be active! Work HARD towards your goal x stay true to YOU!
And even if you've worked hard and it doesn't go as fast as you wanted to .. work HARDER ..
Pump up the volume! Let the boombox scream out the bass!
Yes, you will be boo-ed and laughed at .. but do YOU! And stay humble x do the right thing ..
'Cause at the end, that's what pays off!
Second: You doubt that God will bless you! Actually: You don't believe Him at His word;.
But don't you know that He'll give you what you've asked for in prayer?! (see end of post)
And thirth (I'm pumped right nah!): You don't know where that person has been/had to go through
before he/she came to this point of amazing blessings. God gave that time for that person to shine! And so will you! And so will I!
"Have faith that you wil receive whatever you ask for in prayer." - Matt 21-22
So .. now I can brush that sad, puppyface, I-just-don't-understand attitude off me.
It's almost weekend! Let's have some fun, shall we?
And though I'm clearly giving you the impression of being a mental-coach;
Giving you the BOOST on believing in yourself, you do realize that this post is actually for me too, right?
"Don't fret, today wasn't the time of your breakthrough ..
don't stop moving, today is one day/step/moment closer" - Frizz
Till nxt writings
*Mwah* Frizz
Thursday, January 14, 2010
For the record ..
.. Yes, I need to do this, to keep confusion out of the way for my future readers.
Since I haven't properly welcomed y'all to my improved BLSSDBYGOD blog in 2010, I'd like to take advantage of a certain saying: "better late then never" (pause)
Welcome to MY blog! That's right, the M and Y in cap!
This is a spot where I can clear my thoughts and share it with the people that know me and the ones that want to get to know me. Meaning, there is alot going on in my mind that I'm going to write down here, that alot of people may not understand, hence, will see from a very negative point of view or take too seriously.
Well, to be extremely honest .. I'm not taking myself too seriously.
I love the fact that I'm gettin' to know me everyday! Thank You, Jesus!
May I remind you, that if you can not understand/feel lost in my post .. There's a link below that says: Post a comment .. That's for you! So feel free .. And I love a good ol' comment (since I got none for my previous posts)
So to ALL my loved-ones ..
I'll write alot of stuff 'bout God, but 'bout life as well!
Actually, I'll write 'bout ANYTHING that keeps ME going!
Things that, maybe, are not talked about in your household.
But my mama raised me in a different way ..
She told me: "Dushi, Open up to people.
It's ok to wear your heart on your sleeve.
That is what makes you .. you!
Never be afraid to love the people on your path. And when you do, love hard and long. Forgive all that said or done hurtful things to you! Speak your thoughts and take their opinions, but don't let them get the best of you! Just free your mind!
But NEVER let God out of the picture!"
After that being said, I will do just that! Thank you, mama!
And I hope it'll inspire you to do so, too!
I'll keep you posted!
Till nxt writings!
*Mwah* Frizz
ps: Meaning of dushi = sweetheart, baby .. you know!
Since I haven't properly welcomed y'all to my improved BLSSDBYGOD blog in 2010, I'd like to take advantage of a certain saying: "better late then never" (pause)
Welcome to MY blog! That's right, the M and Y in cap!
This is a spot where I can clear my thoughts and share it with the people that know me and the ones that want to get to know me. Meaning, there is alot going on in my mind that I'm going to write down here, that alot of people may not understand, hence, will see from a very negative point of view or take too seriously.
Well, to be extremely honest .. I'm not taking myself too seriously.
I love the fact that I'm gettin' to know me everyday! Thank You, Jesus!
May I remind you, that if you can not understand/feel lost in my post .. There's a link below that says: Post a comment .. That's for you! So feel free .. And I love a good ol' comment (since I got none for my previous posts)
So to ALL my loved-ones ..
I'll write alot of stuff 'bout God, but 'bout life as well!
Actually, I'll write 'bout ANYTHING that keeps ME going!
Things that, maybe, are not talked about in your household.
But my mama raised me in a different way ..
She told me: "Dushi, Open up to people.
It's ok to wear your heart on your sleeve.
That is what makes you .. you!
Never be afraid to love the people on your path. And when you do, love hard and long. Forgive all that said or done hurtful things to you! Speak your thoughts and take their opinions, but don't let them get the best of you! Just free your mind!
But NEVER let God out of the picture!"
After that being said, I will do just that! Thank you, mama!
And I hope it'll inspire you to do so, too!
I'll keep you posted!
Till nxt writings!
*Mwah* Frizz
ps: Meaning of dushi = sweetheart, baby .. you know!
Wednesday, February 18, 2009
A woman ..
.. that will stand up to be all she can be, through Christ.
That is what I want to be!
Everytime.
Everytime the Lord gives me a verse that just makes all the bells in my head ring loadly!
You know .. that 'Ahaaaaa' moment?
He is a pro in amazing me over and over again and He just won't stop!
Frank, I don't want Him to either! Thank you Jesus!
For example: He gave me this verse on May 9th, 2008 and it's still on my mind:
Proverbs 31: 30 says: 'Charm is deceitful and beauty is passing, but a woman who fears the Lord, she shall be praised!' (NLT trans.)
Every single day women ask themselves who they are.
They ask themselves if they are who they should be.
Am I, as a woman, who I should be in God?
These q's just pop up in a womans head:
* Do I have the right jobs and if so, do I practice it in the right way?
* Do my brothers and sisters from church like me?
*Do I cater to my family good enough as a true woman of God should do?
*Am I helpful enough at home as well as in church and do I, come close in, walk, talk and act like my Lord Jesus?
Well, If you ask me, the answer is not that hard ..
First of all,
There is NO basic manual on "Being the perfect God fearing woman"
so you can just stop doubting about yourself right this minute!
(Don't even think people can write a book 'bout that one!)
I know, sometimes you see a sister in church who dresses nice ..
Talks and walks the right way, obeys God in the right way
(so it seems to you) and you think to yourself
"I wish I was like her" ..
No, no no!
You are you!
God already said to all His children in Deuteronomy 12:19
'But the Lord has taken you (fill your name here) out of the flaming fire, out of Egypt (or where ever you're from), to be to Him the people of His heritage, as you are today!' (BIBE trans.)
You are His heir, girl! Just like those rich girls from tv.
They're heir to their grandfathers billion dollar fortunes, only God has more to offer! Much more y Muchos Mas!
'Cause when you believe in your Father God, He will show you that
you're the prettiest pearl in His hand!
Yeah, you may feel insecure about yourself (I'm confessing now),
but try (in due time) to see yourself through Gods eyes!
When you repent and ask Him why He loves you .. trust me,
He'll show you and you'll be spurised what He sees!
Don't be scared if this world gives you even a little ounce of insecurity.
The world will always make you feel insecure ..
Heck, they'll even shove it in your face:
Fashion magazines, videoclips and even those "Lose weight-pills-they-tell-and-then-sell-that-junk"commercials!
Young girls of 12 that want to look like anorexic models
'cause they show the newest jeans and "it fits great" .. Shame.
God has blessed you with so much more than what this world can or will ever offer you, baby!!
Sisters, it's very important to respect and live by His laws!
You'll have to pray to Him ONLY and be a God fearing woman.
Seek His loving kindness, His guidance, believe in His word and most important of all: Give all of YOURSELF to Him!
Even if you don't know how ..
He'll show you how to let yourself go in His arms.
Just ask Him. That's all part of the relationship!
Because for real, He gave His only Son to die for your sins!
And because of that sacrifice, you have the chance to have a relationship with your Father!
Don't worry 'bout being the best Christian woman in your church,
It's not the latest episode of "God's Next Sanctified and Holy Ghost-filled Church Model" (It doesn't even sound cute!)
No, this is your lifes fairytale of God's New-born Child.
You are free and free indeed to let Him restore your heart
and make you into the woman He wants you to be ..
Through Him you are everything that you should be.
Through Him you are perfect! and here's the proof!:
Genesis 1:27 says:
'And God made man in His image (whuuuuut?! told ya!), in the image of God He made him: male and female He made them' (BIBE trans.)
God is perfect, right? and you are made as His image, right? nuff said!
Oh and it doesn't stop there ..
Genesis 1:31 says:
'And God saw everything which He had made(yea everything!) and it was good'. (BIBE trans.)
And this one:
Psalm 139:14 says:
'I will give thanks unto Thee; For I am fearfully and wonderfully made: (yathzee!) Wonderful are thy works; And that my soul knoweth right well' (ASV trans.)
Believe ONLY in Him and He'll let you meet the most beautiful woman in the world:
You!
Till nxt writings!
*Mwah* Frizz
PS: This message is for my brothers, too!
Yes, you guys can feel pretty insecure about yourselfs too, but you Father God thinks you're handsome and brave! And so do your sisters!
You'll be all you want to be in Christ!
That is what I want to be!
Everytime.
Everytime the Lord gives me a verse that just makes all the bells in my head ring loadly!
You know .. that 'Ahaaaaa' moment?
He is a pro in amazing me over and over again and He just won't stop!
Frank, I don't want Him to either! Thank you Jesus!
For example: He gave me this verse on May 9th, 2008 and it's still on my mind:
Proverbs 31: 30 says: 'Charm is deceitful and beauty is passing, but a woman who fears the Lord, she shall be praised!' (NLT trans.)
Every single day women ask themselves who they are.
They ask themselves if they are who they should be.
Am I, as a woman, who I should be in God?
These q's just pop up in a womans head:
* Do I have the right jobs and if so, do I practice it in the right way?
* Do my brothers and sisters from church like me?
*Do I cater to my family good enough as a true woman of God should do?
*Am I helpful enough at home as well as in church and do I, come close in, walk, talk and act like my Lord Jesus?
Well, If you ask me, the answer is not that hard ..
First of all,
There is NO basic manual on "Being the perfect God fearing woman"
so you can just stop doubting about yourself right this minute!
(Don't even think people can write a book 'bout that one!)
I know, sometimes you see a sister in church who dresses nice ..
Talks and walks the right way, obeys God in the right way
(so it seems to you) and you think to yourself
"I wish I was like her" ..
No, no no!
You are you!
God already said to all His children in Deuteronomy 12:19
'But the Lord has taken you (fill your name here) out of the flaming fire, out of Egypt (or where ever you're from), to be to Him the people of His heritage, as you are today!' (BIBE trans.)
You are His heir, girl! Just like those rich girls from tv.
They're heir to their grandfathers billion dollar fortunes, only God has more to offer! Much more y Muchos Mas!
'Cause when you believe in your Father God, He will show you that
you're the prettiest pearl in His hand!
Yeah, you may feel insecure about yourself (I'm confessing now),
but try (in due time) to see yourself through Gods eyes!
When you repent and ask Him why He loves you .. trust me,
He'll show you and you'll be spurised what He sees!
Don't be scared if this world gives you even a little ounce of insecurity.
The world will always make you feel insecure ..
Heck, they'll even shove it in your face:
Fashion magazines, videoclips and even those "Lose weight-pills-they-tell-and-then-sell-that-junk"commercials!
Young girls of 12 that want to look like anorexic models
'cause they show the newest jeans and "it fits great" .. Shame.
God has blessed you with so much more than what this world can or will ever offer you, baby!!
Sisters, it's very important to respect and live by His laws!
You'll have to pray to Him ONLY and be a God fearing woman.
Seek His loving kindness, His guidance, believe in His word and most important of all: Give all of YOURSELF to Him!
Even if you don't know how ..
He'll show you how to let yourself go in His arms.
Just ask Him. That's all part of the relationship!
Because for real, He gave His only Son to die for your sins!
And because of that sacrifice, you have the chance to have a relationship with your Father!
Don't worry 'bout being the best Christian woman in your church,
It's not the latest episode of "God's Next Sanctified and Holy Ghost-filled Church Model" (It doesn't even sound cute!)
No, this is your lifes fairytale of God's New-born Child.
You are free and free indeed to let Him restore your heart
and make you into the woman He wants you to be ..
Through Him you are everything that you should be.
Through Him you are perfect! and here's the proof!:
Genesis 1:27 says:
'And God made man in His image (whuuuuut?! told ya!), in the image of God He made him: male and female He made them' (BIBE trans.)
God is perfect, right? and you are made as His image, right? nuff said!
Oh and it doesn't stop there ..
Genesis 1:31 says:
'And God saw everything which He had made(yea everything!) and it was good'. (BIBE trans.)
And this one:
Psalm 139:14 says:
'I will give thanks unto Thee; For I am fearfully and wonderfully made: (yathzee!) Wonderful are thy works; And that my soul knoweth right well' (ASV trans.)
Believe ONLY in Him and He'll let you meet the most beautiful woman in the world:
You!
Till nxt writings!
*Mwah* Frizz
PS: This message is for my brothers, too!
Yes, you guys can feel pretty insecure about yourselfs too, but you Father God thinks you're handsome and brave! And so do your sisters!
You'll be all you want to be in Christ!
Friday, February 13, 2009
Dreams ..
.. do come true! Just keep the faith, cause faith is the hope for things not seen.
Yesterday, while walking to my usual Kingdom dancers rehearsal,
(yes, I'm in a church dancegroup that's blessed all the way!)
I was listening to a gospel/holyhiphop mixtape.
By the way, I love listing to Holy hiphop mixes, because they're so upbeat and they're full of the Good Word! And being a traveling lady,
it's the best solution to download a mixtape on my phone and just have all the blessed song together in one hour!
(Saves time from downloading one paticular song at a time, to fill my phone with blessed music!)
So, on my way, I heared a young preacher talking on the mixtape, saying: " When He made you, He had a name for you. He had a plan for you. He had a dream already for you".. That's what got my attention, standing in the middle of the road, by the way.
"In fact, when you think you're living your dream, you're living what He dreamed for you."
I laughed.
I was enlighted by those words.
See, because I am Miss dreamer herself and I dream and hope for things that seem impossible.
I have the faith in very big things that people call me crazy for or tell me to look at little closer at reality for a change.
Still I believe them all to come true! Let me give you an example:
My aunt; a women of mid 60's. Beautiful, old school and sharp.
The fact that she is my aunt alone makes me love her. Always the health-freak, going to the gym, running tracks, always making sure she'd never ate someting to fat or sugary. You know, that would give you those "elderly diseases" as she would call them.
"No, honey, I'm not gonna eat that! They say it's a slow ride to high cholesterol if you eat that." When I saw her, watching her diet like that (that she didn't need), I could only admire and applaud her ..
And now, I still do that ..
Even now, that she had a tumor and the cancer had spread out to her stomach .. I still applaud her, because she is running on a different track, but with that same confidence.
She is not giving up, even if she has a rough day and the road is full of hill and bumps. Yeah, sometimes she does want to give up .. and then I ask God if I can keep that strength for her .. If she loses hope, I'll hope for her .. when she can't pray, I'll pray for her.
And that's what I'm doing .. I don't care what the doctor says .. I'm dreaming of a day that she'll walk. Even run! She will .. and I want to believe that for her ..
Because this is what the Lord Jesus says in Mark 16:17-18 : "And these signs will be with those who have faith: in my name they will send out evil spirits; and they will make use of new languages; They will take up snakes, and if there is poison in their drink, it will do them no evil; they will put their hands on those who are ill, and they will get well."
We have to know that God will provide for His children! But His children have to believe, have faith, live in hope for what they dream of. Dreams do come true .. In Gods hands. Because, as the young preacher said:
He already had a dream for you and you are living what He has dreamed for you.
What we also need to learn is to wait on the right time
for the dream to come true!
Wait .. *sighn*
That is a tough thing to do, but these words encourage me every time:
"But those who are waiting for the Lord will have new strength; they will get wings like eagles: running, they will not be tired, and walking, they will have no weariness." - Isaiah 40:31
Again, I can feel the ends of my mouth touching my ears! Smiling .. BIG TIME!
She will make it and I believe it! Me and my family will keep on praying for her.
Will you please keep her in your prayers, too? Thank you so much!
Till nxt writing!
*mwah* Frizz
Yesterday, while walking to my usual Kingdom dancers rehearsal,
(yes, I'm in a church dancegroup that's blessed all the way!)
I was listening to a gospel/holyhiphop mixtape.
By the way, I love listing to Holy hiphop mixes, because they're so upbeat and they're full of the Good Word! And being a traveling lady,
it's the best solution to download a mixtape on my phone and just have all the blessed song together in one hour!
(Saves time from downloading one paticular song at a time, to fill my phone with blessed music!)
So, on my way, I heared a young preacher talking on the mixtape, saying: " When He made you, He had a name for you. He had a plan for you. He had a dream already for you".. That's what got my attention, standing in the middle of the road, by the way.
"In fact, when you think you're living your dream, you're living what He dreamed for you."
I laughed.
I was enlighted by those words.
See, because I am Miss dreamer herself and I dream and hope for things that seem impossible.
I have the faith in very big things that people call me crazy for or tell me to look at little closer at reality for a change.
Still I believe them all to come true! Let me give you an example:
My aunt; a women of mid 60's. Beautiful, old school and sharp.
The fact that she is my aunt alone makes me love her. Always the health-freak, going to the gym, running tracks, always making sure she'd never ate someting to fat or sugary. You know, that would give you those "elderly diseases" as she would call them.
"No, honey, I'm not gonna eat that! They say it's a slow ride to high cholesterol if you eat that." When I saw her, watching her diet like that (that she didn't need), I could only admire and applaud her ..
And now, I still do that ..
Even now, that she had a tumor and the cancer had spread out to her stomach .. I still applaud her, because she is running on a different track, but with that same confidence.
She is not giving up, even if she has a rough day and the road is full of hill and bumps. Yeah, sometimes she does want to give up .. and then I ask God if I can keep that strength for her .. If she loses hope, I'll hope for her .. when she can't pray, I'll pray for her.
And that's what I'm doing .. I don't care what the doctor says .. I'm dreaming of a day that she'll walk. Even run! She will .. and I want to believe that for her ..
Because this is what the Lord Jesus says in Mark 16:17-18 : "And these signs will be with those who have faith: in my name they will send out evil spirits; and they will make use of new languages; They will take up snakes, and if there is poison in their drink, it will do them no evil; they will put their hands on those who are ill, and they will get well."
We have to know that God will provide for His children! But His children have to believe, have faith, live in hope for what they dream of. Dreams do come true .. In Gods hands. Because, as the young preacher said:
He already had a dream for you and you are living what He has dreamed for you.
What we also need to learn is to wait on the right time
for the dream to come true!
Wait .. *sighn*
That is a tough thing to do, but these words encourage me every time:
"But those who are waiting for the Lord will have new strength; they will get wings like eagles: running, they will not be tired, and walking, they will have no weariness." - Isaiah 40:31
Again, I can feel the ends of my mouth touching my ears! Smiling .. BIG TIME!
She will make it and I believe it! Me and my family will keep on praying for her.
Will you please keep her in your prayers, too? Thank you so much!
Till nxt writing!
*mwah* Frizz
Thursday, February 12, 2009
Angels ..
.. do exist.
It took me a long time to realize this. I just thought that people, who didn't believe in God,
would just say that angels were the one who could make miracles happen.
You know, just to put the whole idea of God existing out of the picture (to avoid dissapointment)
You know, the "my guardian angels are always with me" - type of sentences.
But aha, guardian angels do exist!
Don't get me wrong .. I always thought angels did exist, as Gods helpers in Heaven. I didn't think they would help us around here on earth. Pretty weird thought, huh? Thought so, too!
What I thought was, that God (because He lives in us) help us all by Himself. ..
and yes He is able to do it ALL BY HIMSELF! He is greater than all the earth!
And I do mean ALL THE EARTH!
Moi, when I'm in my curiousity mode (and thats pretty often), always want to see for myself what the Bible says about important subjects. And this being a V.I.S. (Very Important Subject), I wanted to know for sure if the Bible does speak precisely about angels taking care of you and me.
Well, God pointed me on the facts Himself and these are the following verses I found:
Matthew 4:6: "He will command his angels concerning you, and they will lift you up in their hands, so that you will not strike your foot against a stone."
Here is another beautiful sentence of the Bible that explains why angels are here with us:
Luke 4:10: "He will give His angels orders to take care of you"
Did you really think God was only taking about Jesus being taking care of by angels?
Don't get me wrong: Jesus is MUCH HIGHER THAN ALL OF US!
The angels MUST take care of Him! It was and still is an order of God, because Jesus is sitting on His right hand! God loves His Only Begotten Son very very dearly!
And He loves us to! Because we believe in Him and His Son!
That is why He wants His angels to help us, too!
We get tempted, too! Don't you feel weak, in period of temptation and fight? (eventhough it is NOT yours to fight against?). When you can't stand straight anymore, you call on God for help and you can lean on His strenght! But God does not stop there ..
He give you a ten-star treatment: His angels will take care of you, so you will build up strenght to see the glory of another day.
Look here:
In Luke 12:8: "And I say to you that to everyone who gives witness to me before men, the Son of man will give witness before the angels."
Don't you think that they would be happy that you witness the existance of Jesus? They love you too, because God loves you! Check it out:
In Luke 15:10: ( and this is what Jesus said to His apostles)
" Even so, I say to you, There is joy among the angels of God, when one sinner is turned away from his wrongdoing."
Told y'all!
So, my quest biblical subjects is not finished yet ..
Heck, the whole Bible is an amazing quest! And I love it!
It's the book of life, you know?
Till nxt writings ..
Frizz *mwah*
Warning: Do not see angels as God nor worship them in prayers.
They are Gods helpers and, actually, our brothers and sisters.
We all worship God together!
oh, and brothers and sisters who read this and do not believe in Jesus nor God:
With all due respect, please do not be or feel offended.
This is just a way to express my believes . Heck, this is my blog! :P
It took me a long time to realize this. I just thought that people, who didn't believe in God,
would just say that angels were the one who could make miracles happen.
You know, just to put the whole idea of God existing out of the picture (to avoid dissapointment)
You know, the "my guardian angels are always with me" - type of sentences.
But aha, guardian angels do exist!
Don't get me wrong .. I always thought angels did exist, as Gods helpers in Heaven. I didn't think they would help us around here on earth. Pretty weird thought, huh? Thought so, too!
What I thought was, that God (because He lives in us) help us all by Himself. ..
and yes He is able to do it ALL BY HIMSELF! He is greater than all the earth!
And I do mean ALL THE EARTH!
Moi, when I'm in my curiousity mode (and thats pretty often), always want to see for myself what the Bible says about important subjects. And this being a V.I.S. (Very Important Subject), I wanted to know for sure if the Bible does speak precisely about angels taking care of you and me.
Well, God pointed me on the facts Himself and these are the following verses I found:
Matthew 4:6: "He will command his angels concerning you, and they will lift you up in their hands, so that you will not strike your foot against a stone."
Here is another beautiful sentence of the Bible that explains why angels are here with us:
Luke 4:10: "He will give His angels orders to take care of you"
Did you really think God was only taking about Jesus being taking care of by angels?
Don't get me wrong: Jesus is MUCH HIGHER THAN ALL OF US!
The angels MUST take care of Him! It was and still is an order of God, because Jesus is sitting on His right hand! God loves His Only Begotten Son very very dearly!
And He loves us to! Because we believe in Him and His Son!
That is why He wants His angels to help us, too!
We get tempted, too! Don't you feel weak, in period of temptation and fight? (eventhough it is NOT yours to fight against?). When you can't stand straight anymore, you call on God for help and you can lean on His strenght! But God does not stop there ..
He give you a ten-star treatment: His angels will take care of you, so you will build up strenght to see the glory of another day.
Look here:
In Luke 12:8: "And I say to you that to everyone who gives witness to me before men, the Son of man will give witness before the angels."
Don't you think that they would be happy that you witness the existance of Jesus? They love you too, because God loves you! Check it out:
In Luke 15:10: ( and this is what Jesus said to His apostles)
" Even so, I say to you, There is joy among the angels of God, when one sinner is turned away from his wrongdoing."
Told y'all!
So, my quest biblical subjects is not finished yet ..
Heck, the whole Bible is an amazing quest! And I love it!
It's the book of life, you know?
Till nxt writings ..
Frizz *mwah*
Warning: Do not see angels as God nor worship them in prayers.
They are Gods helpers and, actually, our brothers and sisters.
We all worship God together!
oh, and brothers and sisters who read this and do not believe in Jesus nor God:
With all due respect, please do not be or feel offended.
This is just a way to express my believes . Heck, this is my blog! :P
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