Heartfelt

As my, one and only, girl B-fly would say: Spread the Love ♥

Let's Mix .. 5

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Heartfelt

From the moment you start loving yourself 1st and foremost .. someone will catch up to that and try to love you more ..

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Hey you ..

Seriously .. I need to .. COME HERE ♥

Hearteyez ..

It makes me tinglish inside ♥

Let's Mix .. 3

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Dear Nueva York ..

We haven't been on our first date yet but'ummm ..



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Lets mix .. 2

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Lets mix ..

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A Msg from God

True honey pt 1 .. Examples of Beauty

Seriously ..

I've never seen a woman with such a natural glow, on EVERY picture!! She's a example of natural and true beauty! Doesn't even matter if she has an outbreak on the middle of her forehead .. (Go show that outbreak girl, it has to come out somehow!!) Still she looks so amazing!

Born and raised in the Bronx, by her young mother ( mom had her by the age 15), this true honey has alot going for herself! She's been modeling for several major fashion brands incl. Ralph Lauren, Tommy Hilfiger and Victoria Secret's. But now she's a well respected actress and columnist @ Essence.com. It's not only the appearance that makes this beauty shine: Underneath it goes a true intelligent woman who went to Yale University (she won a full academic scholarship!!) and is closely attached to the outreach organization "A Better Chance" that helped her when she was a young girl.
She's now married since 2008 to Dave Pope!

Lovelies, meet our first true honey example: Joy Bryant



Do you know a true beauty that you want the world to see?
I got space for a million, so reccommend!


Oh, do share!!

*Mwah*, Frizz

Floral Spring .. Whoop, Whoop!!

I told y'all my dream of the perfect dress would come true!
I found 1 and now it's all over the place!

Floral dresses everywhere! YaaaaaaaaY!!
Even H&M made a collection with almost 75% being FLORAL!!
PrettIEEEEEES!!



With the most precious name (The Garden Collection) and environment friendly!



Spring is gonna be so sweet! Plus, I already got the combat boots!!

I'm on a hunt, y'all ..
My closet, man .. POW, TADOW, WATCH OUT NOW!!



*Mwah*, Frizz

Different types of honey pt 1 ..

Warning: Use of sexy/explicit imagery .. Material helps to make a point! Just something that weighted heavy on my heart!

Oeh .. I'm so upset!
So the other day, I was talking to my dear niece Chanty. 17, beautiful dark skinned girl, with a body to die for! Somehow, our convo's always go from God to guys, to a mixture of both. This time she was telling me about the kind of guys she diggs, but that those guys are always falling for the SAME TYPE/KIND OF GIRLS! You know, the kind of girls you see in videos ..

No clue? Pic the visual:
- Curled or sleek hair, (most of the times it's a weave)
- Yellow, red or brown bone (read: light bright, red undertone and caramel-brown: Black mixed with Hispanic, Euro, Asian etc.)
- Thick or very nicely built (full frontal, small waist, biiiig hips, thighs n booty)
- A pair of babygirl/bedroom eyes (big/small eyes with long lashes)
- And thick candy rose lips

Ok, lemme give you a visual then:

Now, I think this woman is very BEAUTIFUL! I truely do!
But, there a alot of girls/women, that feel they're being overlooked by men, just 'cause they do NOT look like her or have any of the "qualities" of the notorious list. Living in a society that's based on superficiality, with video's that show you how to look, walk, live and have the " be like me or be nothing" mentality, alot of beautiful girls/women are gettin' infected by it .. the wrong way.

Because this is an issue that is being overlooked, but so important, I'll spend some of my precious blogspace on this subject. To keep this post descent (lenght wise), I will post this matter in different parts ... I told you it was heavy on my heart!

Example #1 : I know that there are alot of beautiful darkskinned/mocha girls that think they're underrated (not beautiful), 'cause their fellow black sisters are f.e. not displayed as the singer's interest in his last video. Producers rather have a interest in a girl looking like the one shown in the last picture or at least with some of the features of the list. But these beautiful darkskinned/mocha girls do lead in another part of the video ..


The booty-poppin' part ..
Yes, it is a fact that alot of darkskinned/mocha ladies, no matter how beautiful, are casted to pop sum .. Girls/women of the same shades feel like they either have to pop or rebuild sum', in order to be liked by anyone!

I know what you're thinkin' .. "Ladies need to stop that nonsence and start loving themselves no matter how they look or what skincolour they have/Didn't their mama's teach them anything about selfrespect and selflove?" Believe me, I feel the same way, and there is NOTHING more important than loving yourself! But its still a big thing for them to say "I am beautiful"!

So what I'm about to share now, goes out to ALL WOMEN!! black, white, yellow, green .. All y'all!!
What you shouldn't do is compare yourself with a model from a video or any media in paticular!! It's ok to look at magazines for a cute top or new shade of gloss, but don't shop for the same eyes and thighs! You ARE Gods masterpiece! You ARE made in HIS likeness! You're beautiful and perfect just the way you are!!

I'll tell you, look around or surf @ community sites! Girls/women are really trying to look like those vixens! Same poses, same clothes (only cheaper), same hair .. everything!! They're even giving themself the vixens last name!! That made me so upset!! I wanted to shake the girl and tell her:

Ok, so what happend to you?? Where did you put yourself? In the fridge? Probably, 'cause you think it's cool .. Pretending to be someone else! -Frizz

They just have no idea how good it feels to be your individual/original self instead of being a copy of somebody else ..

Nxt time: " How far women can go to "look sexy" in the worldly eye"

But in the meantime ..
What do you think? Share your thoughts with me!
Let's debate!!

*Mwah* Frizz

Saviour ..

The Favor that was given is everlastin'
It's more that just a warm hug, it keeps you guessin'
How deep and pure it goes
The miracles it shows
I can't keep it to myself,
I really need to pass this
On
I got to keep on going
Strong
Eventhough the circumstances want to proof me wrong
Still I know life is much better
So those phases can do whatever
I won't go back
No, never

(It's like) Fresh flower essence coming down my way, and
Summer breeze that will never stop to sway when
The favor of Him is always in my future- present
So I'll praise my Prince, 'cause He is the only true Legend

Gnaw ..

Kneelin', almost laid down

Covered it all types of things

wonder when it stops

when the blows will come to an end

I can't get up no more

'cause the punches get harder

Man I'm almost KO'ed

they push and drive me further,

Away

Someday

These pains will go astray

But someday seems so untouchable

another blow, so there I go

I need to lean

I scream, yell

I can't get up

Just did but fell

Can't cry no more

Just let me dwell

'Cause it's hard to get outta this shell

I never knew I'd fall so deep

in mindsets that don't make the change

The power that I need is still here

and will never go away

Why won't I grab it?

Why do I hesitate?

Does it seem unreal

Or a waist of time to hydrate?

I just don't know how

To take it by the hand

Please, help me Lord, I'm exhausted

Please help me understand ..

This thing called life/Your will for me.

For the record ..

.. Yes, I need to do this, to keep confusion out of the way for my future readers.

Since I haven't properly welcomed y'all to my improved BLSSDBYGOD blog in 2010, I'd like to take advantage of a certain saying: "better late then never" (pause)

Welcome to MY blog! That's right, the M and Y in cap!
This is a spot where I can clear my thoughts and share it with the people that know me and the ones that want to get to know me. Meaning, there is alot going on in my mind that I'm going to write down here, that alot of people may not understand, hence, will see from a very negative point of view or take too seriously.

Well, to be extremely honest .. I'm not taking myself too seriously.
I love the fact that I'm gettin' to know me everyday! Thank You, Jesus!

May I remind you, that if you can not understand/feel lost in my post .. There's a link below that says: Post a comment .. That's for you! So feel free .. And I love a good ol' comment (since I got none for my previous posts)

So to ALL my loved-ones ..
I'll write alot of stuff 'bout God, but 'bout life as well!
Actually, I'll write 'bout ANYTHING that keeps ME going!
Things that, maybe, are not talked about in your household.
But my mama raised me in a different way ..
She told me: "Dushi, Open up to people.
It's ok to wear your heart on your sleeve.
That is what makes you .. you!
Never be afraid to love the people on your path. And when you do, love hard and long. Forgive all that said or done hurtful things to you! Speak your thoughts and take their opinions, but don't let them get the best of you! Just free your mind!
But NEVER let God out of the picture!"

After that being said, I will do just that! Thank you, mama!
And I hope it'll inspire you to do so, too!

I'll keep you posted!

Till nxt writings!

*Mwah* Frizz

ps: Meaning of dushi = sweetheart, baby .. you know!

A woman ..

.. that will stand up to be all she can be, through Christ.
That is what I want to be!

Everytime.

Everytime the Lord gives me a verse that just makes all the bells in my head ring loadly!

You know .. that 'Ahaaaaa' moment?
He is a pro in amazing me over and over again and He just won't stop!
Frank, I don't want Him to either! Thank you Jesus!

For example: He gave me this verse on May 9th, 2008 and it's still on my mind:

Proverbs 31: 30 says: 'Charm is deceitful and beauty is passing, but a woman who fears the Lord, she shall be praised!' (NLT trans.)

Every single day women ask themselves who they are.
They ask themselves if they are who they should be.
Am I, as a woman, who I should be in God?

These q's just pop up in a womans head:
* Do I have the right jobs and if so, do I practice it in the right way?
* Do my brothers and sisters from church like me?
*Do I cater to my family good enough as a true woman of God should do?
*Am I helpful enough at home as well as in church and do I, come close in, walk, talk and act like my Lord Jesus?

Well, If you ask me, the answer is not that hard ..

First of all,
There is NO basic manual on "Being the perfect God fearing woman"
so you can just stop doubting about yourself right this minute!
(Don't even think people can write a book 'bout that one!)

I know, sometimes you see a sister in church who dresses nice ..
Talks and walks the right way, obeys God in the right way
(so it seems to you) and you think to yourself
"I wish I was like her" ..

No, no no!

You are you!
God already said to all His children in Deuteronomy 12:19

'But the Lord has taken you (fill your name here) out of the flaming fire, out of Egypt (or where ever you're from), to be to Him the people of His heritage, as you are today!' (BIBE trans.)

You are His heir, girl! Just like those rich girls from tv.
They're heir to their grandfathers billion dollar fortunes, only God has more to offer! Much more y Muchos Mas!

'Cause when you believe in your Father God, He will show you that
you're the prettiest pearl in His hand!
Yeah, you may feel insecure about yourself (I'm confessing now),
but try (in due time) to see yourself through Gods eyes!
When you repent and ask Him why He loves you .. trust me,
He'll show you and you'll be spurised what He sees!

Don't be scared if this world gives you even a little ounce of insecurity.
The world will always make you feel insecure ..
Heck, they'll even shove it in your face:
Fashion magazines, videoclips and even those "Lose weight-pills-they-tell-and-then-sell-that-junk"commercials!
Young girls of 12 that want to look like anorexic models
'cause they show the newest jeans and "it fits great" .. Shame.

God has blessed you with so much more than what this world can or will ever offer you, baby!!

Sisters, it's very important to respect and live by His laws!
You'll have to pray to Him ONLY and be a God fearing woman.
Seek His loving kindness, His guidance, believe in His word and most important of all: Give all of YOURSELF to Him!
Even if you don't know how ..
He'll show you how to let yourself go in His arms.
Just ask Him. That's all part of the relationship!
Because for real, He gave His only Son to die for your sins!
And because of that sacrifice, you have the chance to have a relationship with your Father!

Don't worry 'bout being the best Christian woman in your church,
It's not the latest episode of "God's Next Sanctified and Holy Ghost-filled Church Model" (It doesn't even sound cute!)
No, this is your lifes fairytale of God's New-born Child.
You are free and free indeed to let Him restore your heart
and make you into the woman He wants you to be ..
Through Him you are everything that you should be.

Through Him you are perfect! and here's the proof!:

Genesis 1:27 says:
'And God made man in His image (whuuuuut?! told ya!), in the image of God He made him: male and female He made them' (BIBE trans.)

God is perfect, right? and you are made as His image, right? nuff said!
Oh and it doesn't stop there ..

Genesis 1:31 says:
'And God saw everything which He had made(yea everything!) and it was good'. (BIBE trans.)

And this one:

Psalm 139:14 says:
'I will give thanks unto Thee; For I am fearfully and wonderfully made: (yathzee!) Wonderful are thy works; And that my soul knoweth right well' (ASV trans.)

Believe ONLY in Him and He'll let you meet the most beautiful woman in the world:

You!

Till nxt writings!

*Mwah* Frizz

PS: This message is for my brothers, too!
Yes, you guys can feel pretty insecure about yourselfs too, but you Father God thinks you're handsome and brave! And so do your sisters!
You'll be all you want to be in Christ!